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Written by David Tutin
Thursday, 27 November 2008
zanox (http://www.zanox.com), a global leader in performance-based online marketing, has announced the appointment of Nic Peters to the position of UK Country Manager. Peters has been promoted from Sales Director at zanox, a role she took up in February 2008. As UK Country Manager, she will be responsible for building on the success experienced by zanox in the UK during 2008, as well as working with leading brands to develop the company’s market share. Previously, Peters held positions with AltaVista, where she was the company’s 3rd UK employee and worked on introducing the brand into the UK market. From there she moved to MediaBrokers, rising to the position of sales director within two years, a period when she introduced its behavioural targeting and Pay For Performance services to the UK. Prior to joining zanox, she was Sales Director of behavioural marketing specialists, Unite Interactive, a division of Accelerator. “zanox is in a very strong position in that our truly global reach and excellent local publishers offer an unrivalled service to both advertisers and publishers alike,” commented Peters. “The UK remains a vital territory for performance marketing and I’m very confident that we can build on the good work already carried out this year.” “Nic has made a huge impact on zanox in the UK in a very short space of time and we’re delighted that she will be taking full responsibility for the business in the UK going forward,” said Uwe Bormann, International Marketing and PR Director “Her experience, drive and expertise is a major asset to the business.”
About zanox
ZANOX.de AG is leading the German market for performance-based online marketing and has established a strong presence in all core markets around the world. More than 2000 prestigious international companies rely on the zanox affiliate network and sector-specific expertise in all sectors where innovation is taking place, such as retail and shopping, travel, T.I.M.E.S. (telecommunications, internet, media, entertainment, software) and financial services. Affiliate programs provide companies with global solutions for efficiently marketing their products and services on the Internet. zanox attaches great importance to the quality and the continuing development of its affiliate sites, whose owners are in addition being motivated by fast and transparent compensation. zanox’s technological lead becomes manifest in its currently running 1 million euro idea contest for new applications based on its affiliate web services.
In addition to its 24 branches in foreign countries, zanox’s international focus is strengthened by its Global Alliance Partner (GAP) programme. Furthermore, in June of 2008, the GAP campus opened its doors at zanox headquarters in Berlin to serve as an international meeting point for developers and designers.
Since 2007, 60% of zanox has been owned by Axel Springer AG and 40% by PubliGroupe. Axel Springer AG is Germany’s largest newspaper house, ranks third among her magazine publishers and is also one of the leading European media companies. PubliGroupe AG is an independent, internationally leading group offering marketing, sales and services to media and advertisers, which it assists in the implementation of their communication and media strategies by delivering marketing and technology services to them. For further information, visit: http://www.zanox.com
Yesterday I received an email from Facebook indicating that a video I’d posted to my profile was being removed due to Alleged Copywright Violations. A few years ago I received a similar notification from Youtube regarding a video I posted of Prince performing during the halftime show at the Super Bowl in Miami. I wholly understood Youtube’s request, and happily removed the video. But this is different.
Facebook seems to have implemented some sort of automated system to determine if there may be copywrite violations occurring – because the video in question is footage of my wife Laura, my daughter Talia, and myself pumpkin picking. Odd.
I’ll certainly push to have the video placed back on my profile page again as soon as possible, but in the interim I’ll post the video here. You decide – copywrite infringement or fun family video caught in a crawling algorithm incorrectly by the facebook team?
Facebook receives one big bad review from me on this one. I’m sure they’ll fix it – but thought I’d share and see if anyone else experience the same thing?
Here’s the email they sent to my attention:
Hello,
We have removed your video entitled “Talia goes Apple/Pumpkin picking” uploaded at 8:46pm October 16th, 2008. We did this because we learned that your video might include copyrighted material owned by a third party, such as a video clip or background audio.
If you are the copyright owner, or have permission from the rights holder to upload and distribute this material on Facebook, you may file a counter notice of alleged infringement by following the link below.
Please note that if you re-upload this video without filing a counter notice, or if you upload another video that infringes on the rights of a third party, our system will again remove the content. This could cause your access to the Facebook Video application to be disabled, or your Facebook account to be disabled.
To file a counter notice:
File a Counter NotificationFor any other questions, view our Help page.
The Facebook Team
In a recent post regarding Daniel Pink’s new book A Whole New Mind: Why Right-Brainers Will Rule the FutureI committed to reading the book. I lied. Sort of. I downloaded the audiobook
I’ve been enjoying everything about this book. Daniel Pinkis certainly capturing the essence of something that I feel is changing the world we live in. Not only are some of his ideas fresh and new, but he’s presented them in a manner that will silence critics. I’m encouraged that a movement toward giving right brained thinkers more respect and accolades indicates that our culture is growing as a collective.
Here are the list of 6 senses that describes as being key differentiators for our future leaders. I’ve already touched on these in past posts, but after hearing the audiobook, I feel they’re worth reiterating;
1. Design - A Movement beyond function
2. Story -Those that will succeed need to not only present an argument, but they must add persuasive narrative
3. Symphony - I love the sound of this one – Putting all of these pieces together and seeing the big picture
4. Empathy - Extending beyond just logic
5. Play Pink regards play with as much esteem as other traits – indicating that games and humor must play a role in our lives.
6. Meaning - Pink references research of college students who instead of articulating an interest to make boat loads of money when asked what they want to do – they speak of making a difference – having purpose – and contributing to the greater good.
I’m sure I’ll provide more from Pink’s book
I’m fascinated, and encouraged at the same time.

According to the Alley Insider:
In mid-November, Kara Swisher reported that the bloodletting would take place on December 10, this coming Wednesday.
Layoffs from Yahoo! could mean great news for Yahoo! competitors in the online advertising ecosystem. It’s strikes me that some of these individuals being laid off are not being asked to leave due to poor performance. It’s also worth stating that these are highly training people with a depth and breath of experience in the online world that is highly saught after. I see opportunity here for the few companies that may be in hiring mode to get highly qualified candidates at reduced salaries.
Yesterday I posted about how the pending Yahoo! Layoff could potentially mean a windfall for mid sized companies looking for talented people in the interactive space. TechCrunch’s Erick Schonfeld seems to have come upon a company that took this to a whole new level (TokBox).
Schonfeld writes:
Today, 1,500 people at Yahoo are losing their jobs, as layoffs across the tech landscape approaches 100,000. But for start ups lucky enough to have cash to hire, 1,500 soon-to-be-unemployed Yahoos is a recruiting opportunity.
Video chat start-up Tobbox (which raised $10million in August) will be parking a taco truck outside of Yahoo headquarters today, handing out free tacos and job applications. TokBox only has five jobs to fill, so maybe they can make room in the truck for other hiring start-ups.
Hysterical!
Kudos to TokBox for taking it to the streets. Although I’m not sure how successful they’ll be in their recruiting efforts – TokBox just bought themselves some serious free PR across the interactive ecosystem.
Papa,
Today I really miss you.
I think it’s because I’m a father now and I’d give anything to for you to meet Talia. Although this time of year is always difficult without you, missing you hasn’t gotten easier. There is no easing of that pain, only perhaps a greater understanding of the man you were and why you did the things you did. As I get older I can see what a truly great man you were.
This Thanksgiving I showed everyone the letter you’d written to me after I received the Coach’s Award in High School. As an 18 year old I appreciated the letter for sure, but not nearly as much as now at 33. A few months ago when I found the letter in Mom and Dad’s basement I felt like I’d been hit in my chest with a sledge hammer. It shook me to my core. So I gingerly unfolded it, framed it and put it at my bedside. Now I read it often, and I hear you. You wrote letters to others in the family. You made everyone feel special. Thank you. You’ll never know the magnitude of those gestures.
When confronted with the grief of losing you, I find myself feeling it even deeper as more and more blessings are bestowed upon our family. I wish you were here to enjoy these moments. There’s certainly a part of me that feels you are participating in my life every day. There’s also that other part of me that feels you’re gone. I suppose writing this letter addresses the latter sentiment, in a hope to connect myself to you as much as possible.
I recall Christmas’s past. I can close my eyes and smell you, feel your cheek on mine when you’d hug me. I can hear you saying Merry Christmas to all of us. I can hear you offering a toast to family – always making it clear that you were the “richest man in the world” because of all of the love surrounding you. We all love you so much.
Today I really miss you.
I wish you were able to sit in a chair and have Sophia, Julia and Talia crawl on your lap. I bet your face would get red, and you’d laugh your laugh. I can still hear it. I wish you were able to offer another family toast. I tried this Thanksgiving. I hope I made you proud. I think I did.
Mark and I used to sit with you and talk about what your life was like growing up with your siblings in Brooklyn. If you were still here we’d talk to you about our daughters, our lovely wives, our homes, and the town we both live in. We’d tell you how you taught us the importance of family. We’d tell you that we’ve grown closer as adults. We know you worried about that when we fought as children. You taught us how to be men.
Mom misses you. I can tell that this time of year is the worst for her. She misses your kind words. She misses your unconditional love and your ability to convey that you loved her for being her. You’ll never know how much she loves you.
I feel better now. I know you’re here. Thanks for listening Papa.
Merry Christmas buddy.

I’ve just re-watched Randy Pausch’s Last Lecture.
A message I wanted to share:
You can spend your time complaining, or you can choose to play, have fun and spread joy throughout your life. If you lead your life the right way, the karma will take care of itself. The dreams will come to you. If you live properly.
Personally, I choose to be a Tigger in life. I don’t want to be, nor do I choose to associate with the Eor’s of the world.
Choose to be a Tigger. 
Mashable posted on an interesting phenomenon – this weekend’s Denver plane crash ended up being first reported on by a passenger – via Twitter. This is a fascinating sign of the times. On a comically smaller scale, my train into the city broke down this morning, and I tweeted about it (cdessi). It’s certainly something I don’t do regularly enough to have a flock of fans awaiting my every tweet (Garyvee). I do however, tend to try to add interesting tid bits (thoughts on life, and interests) rather than the banal thoughts of a 33 year father of one. How else do you see Twitter changing the game in 2009?
Should we be surprised that this weekend’s Denver plane crash was first reported on Twitter, from a passenger aboard the plane? Or is the fascinating Twitter stream, from user 2drinksbehind, merely indicative of how our news will break in 2009 and beyond?
It’s safe to predict the latter.
And yet, breaking the news is by no means the only role of news agencies: parsing that raw information, and filtering it, and making sense of it in a broader context, is where news organizations continue to shine.
This morning in the Wall Street Journal I read an article titled Mortgage Applications Surge on Falling Rates by Dan Fitzpatrick. In the article, Todd Chamberlain, head of the residential mortgage division at Birmingham, ALA based Region’s Financial Corp states:
Borrowers “are starting to say, ‘Wow, I can get this piece of property at this price, which is a fair amount lower than I could have gotten a year ago’”
I think this sentiment in general will definitively trigger the online advertising world to consolidate more rapidly than we’ve ever seen. I foresee a flurry of M&A activity early in 2009. There’s no reason to think that smart companies with tons of cash won’t go bargain hunting come January.
Mashable reported today that users can track good ole’ Santa via Twitter this year – just what I wanted for Christmas!
Britney and Shaq are on Twitter, so why not Santa Claus? Expanding on NORAD’s tradition, this year you’ll be able to track Santa using Twitter, via the @noradsanta account. The account is being maintained by “Bitz the Twittering Elf,” and compliments NORAD’s official site – Noradsanta.org – which includes options to track Santa in 3D in Google Earth, a countdown, and an interactive North pole.
This seems like a pretty fun/cool add on for Twitter. But then reality sets in (well sort of). I see a huge opportunity here for retailers during future holidays. Think about it. This coming Easter - Hallmark’s Twitter account can track the Easter Bunny – offering discounts, or tips for purchasing cool Easter gifts along the way. Maybe Retailers can even create fictional characters to be tracked via Twitter to get certain “twitter only” discounts?
What do you guys think? Is this an idea “fail”?
After reviewing my rather stuffy list of predictions for 2009 (albeit laser accurate, I guarantee it)… something was missing. So, after no demand whatsoever – here’s a list of things that only effected me and my family. I’m going to make you sit through it because I think some of these things could effect your life too (seriously)
Drum role please – here are the top 10 events of 2008 – from my perspective, regardless their bearing on personal, or business events:
10. Moving into our Townhouse. Scary as hell, but well worth it. Chappaqua rocks, and my baby girl has her own bedroom. Cool, very cool
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9. A New job! Miva Direct, Alot.com – After learning more at Azoogle than I think I can truly comprehend this early in my career (special thanks to Don Mathis, Alex Zhardanovsky, Joe Speiser and Brett Lofgren), and then experiencing on of the most intense roller coaster rides of my career at zanox, I’ve very happily landed at Miva Direct (a division of Miva Inc), and parent to our flagship brand www.alot.com. I’m revisiting my direct marketing roots, and I’m fired up to come into work again…priceless.
8. A new business – Dadzilla.tv (should be ready to rumble late Q1, 2009)
7. Web 2.0 Expo - This is where I learned about Gary Vaynerchuk, and winelibrary.tv, www.etsy.com, mzinga and the the concept of “We are greater than Me”
6. Techcrunch50 – the conference was broadcast live on Ustream.com. I watched every minute, and loved every minute. Some favorites – www.akoha.com, and www.fitbit.com stand out.
5. The Secret - It may be psycho-babble to some people, but the road to self help began with watching the Secret. It was a defining wake up call for a guy that was fine with being mediocre. Since viewing, I’ve become a Vice President, made more money in the past three years than the previous 5 of my career, bought a townhouse in a phenomenal town (see number 10), and started meditating. Suffice to say mediocrity is no longer on the agenda.
4. A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose (Oprah’s Book Club, Selection 61)
This brilliant book has changed the way I perceive the world. If reading and seeing the Secret was the appetizer, A New Earth was the main course. I highly recommend it. The concepts are at times a bit obtuse, but it will always have you thinking.
3. UFC – Ultimate Fighter Season 5
- Although it seems like an odd one, I’m hooked. I’m impressed with the athletes, and at the same time intrigued by Dana White and his business acumen. I’m a huge fan.
2. John and Kate Plus 8 – Let’s take a look at the total antithesis of Ultimate Fighting – John and Kate Plus 8. A reality show about a family that (although they already had twins), decided to try for another, and ended up with sextuplets. If you ever feel that you’re overwhelmed at work, with family etc. Watch the show, and admire the manner in which these two sleep deprived parents can communicate and parent without killing each other. A must watch for any parent. Plus the kids are adorable. This show will certainly put you in a good mood.
1. Talia Ann Dessi – Magic, just magic. From being there when she was born, to watching her notice her hands for the first time, my perfect daughter has taught me how to see the world through a whole new set of eyes, and for that I’m forever in her debt. She’s pure joy, pure light, and the best thing I’ve ever done in my life.
Happy New Year everyone!
Question: Who inspired you this year?
My answer: Gary Vaynerchuk
I’m a wine neophite, yet I find myself watching Gary’s online reviews obessesively. I like to think of myself as a positive, motivated, focused guy yet Gary’s online activity (endless tweets on twitter), and non stop production of killer content makes me question my own work ethic (this is a good thing). When everyone in our industry is freaking out about layoffs, and who they’re going to point the finger at Gary’s message never wanes “love, hustle, family”….
This guy is what the online industry should all aspire to be. How can you not love a guy that decided to proclaim a “Good People Day”.…awesome
When I saw Gary deliver this keynote at Web 2.0Expo it changed my life. Seriously. Watch it. Then watch it again. I even made my parents watch it. I made my colleagues watch it.
I nominate Gary Vaynerchuk as Online Man of the Year 2008
It’s that time of year again, when you make promises you can’t keep, over commit to Gym time, work hours, and time spent on that novel you started Freshman year in College. After setting to work on my own list of New Years Resolutions, I thought it may be valuable to scour the Internet and aggregate a few of my favorite lists from the on line advertising world. Take a look:
Click this link to check out MediaTwo – Interactive Ad Agency‘s resolutions.
Media Post did something different this year, and offer New Year’s Resolutions for Hispanic Marketers; HERE
Adotas is always insightful. Take a look at their resolutions. All of which I agree with. If I were to put them in order of importance, I’d list
Better Engage Users Through Social Interaction as my number one
Kudos to the team at Adotas. I believe their list is one of the most comprehensive I could find.
Here are my 5 Resolutions for 2009:
1. Listen to our users more. The Alot.com brand is a phenomenal product. We need to break down walls and allow our users to give us feedback about the product. This will allow for champions for the Alot.com brand, and provide a forum for us to share information.
2. Continue to be the “white hat” provider of downloadable toolbars. We have a strong relationship with Google, Truste Certification, and will continue to develop and cultivate strong working relationships.
3. Test, test test. Our team has so many great ideas that will enhance our users experiences that it behooves us to test everything.
4. Continue to pay attention to ROI. It’s easy to get caught up in big deals attached to big dollar signs. If there’s no attention to ROI, we’re shooting ourselves in the foot.
5. Stay focused. As we grow and continue to generate revenue, it’s easy to rest on your laurels. We need to stay focused and push each other (especially in such a volatile economic environment.
Today is the beginning of a new life. Today, you can start over. All good things are coming to you today. You’re grateful to be alive today. You see beauty all around you. You live with passion and purpose. You take time to laugh everyday. You are awake, energized and alive. You focus on all the good things in life. You give thanks for them. You are at peace and one with everything. You feel the love, joy and the abundance. You are free to be yourself. You are magnificence in human form. You are the perfection of life. Be grateful to be you. Today is the best day of your life.
I know I am.
It’s all too obvious in our current economic climate to discuss that the only constant is change. The one and only thing reliable and consistent in the interactive space is certainly change. Rapid, busting bronco - pissed off change. Spikes to the north - spikes to the south. Companies explode - companies implode. People have meteoric rises, people have meteoric crashes to earth.
Managing this change is not easy.
Here are a few pointers:
1. Understand change
- If you currently feel like there needs to be change in your company, I want you to write down the changes you’d like – and now plan for them. understand how to execute these changes step by step. Understand everything, from each person you want to get involved to every result you want to see – now go and do it!
-If you’re resisting change – I want you to ask yourself why? I know that the positive effects of change (at first) can seem much more obvious than the negative – but ask yourself what you’re afraid of, and move forward with change even if it scares you.
2. Plan for change
Focusing on your goals can help you plan for change. Decide what your vision statement is (on a personal level) – keep it short and sweet – maybe one or two sentences, and execute. If you’re confronted with corporate culture (truthfully, what I know that I’m up against currently) - then change corporate culture through yourself, and through individuals.
3. Implement your own change
This is going to sound like something your third grade teacher may have said to you – but maybe we all need to re-visit the foundation of what’s made us who we are – honestly isn’t the best policy -it’s the only policy. Give the full picture of why you feel there needs to be change (huge revenue goals for example), draw people in (find the appropriate talent), and convey to them your passion and roadmap for success. Brief the best talent as often as possible. Make training the centerpiece of any change you wish to implement.
Some ways to communicate change:
* Media – Newsletters – trade publications, THIS BLOG, anything to get your message of change out.
* Presentations - Present to large and small groups alike.
*Training - Set up training sessions for management workshops, and skill training as well
* Team Meetings - discuss issues, don’t hesitate to take any issue head on. Air problems, and suggest solutions. My team meets formally twice a week, and I feel we’re just scratching the surface.
* Trouble Shooting - regular feedback is essential. Team problem solving and progress briefing sessions help to keep everyone’s eye on the ball.
4. Consolidate change in your own company
If progress for change lapses – the first thing you should do is look to yourself. Understand if you have set up the appropriate manner in which you can track and monitor change. Have you set up the appropriate way to measure any change that you wish to implement? How are you measuring the response of prospects? Customers? Employees? Subordinates?
Continue to attempt to maintain momentum, and continually assess your skills.
I know I do.
good luck.
Working in the interactive space you encounter all kinds. There are the newly minted rich – sometimes great people that are humbled by their successes, and…well, sometimes not. Similarly within any organization it’s apparent that you won’t have a full staff of easily motivated sales people running around the office shouting about what a great company they work for. On the flip side of that coin is the reserved, cerebral tech person that perhaps is a bit introverted. I tend to be the former, and frankly I’m still trying to crack the code to access what drives the later crowd. Here are 5 things I’ve found to be effective when motivating teams that include all types of individuals:
Recently more than ever I’m fascinated by the statuses that my friends, family, and colleagues share on facebook. There are some that use the status as an opportunity to vent about their ailments, complain about their work. Some are fantastically humorous and others border on too much information (I made this mistake), and was quickly notified that I’d crossed the line for sharing. Lesson learned.
Personally I enjoy getting as many comments as I can with my statuses. It’s become a little game I play. Post a status on the train ride home and see what I can stir up. Recently the most responded too statuses have been any where I reference the 80′s or my generations childhood. If I can remind people what it felt like when they were 15 – they’re all over the comments, and it’s a total blast. I’m not a great writer, nor am I witty enough to keep things that interesting…but here are a few of my favorites I’ve recently posted. 
Chris is feeling GREAT – you know kinda like when you walked into class expecting an exam but saw a substitute and a projector. That RULED
Chris is Mr freeze-meister, I’m Mr snow… I’m Mr icicle, I’m Mr 10 below
Chris is wondering, what where Sleastaks, and if they ended up in the Land of the Lost too, how did they find those kids? Just sayin’.
Chris is rockin’ around the Christmas tree..CANNOT get that outta my head – now it’s in yours….Merry Christmas….
Chris is thrilled that there’s a public forum where he can talk about himself in the 3rd person; Chris is REALLY enjoying that.
Bad news, bad economy, bad lay-offs, bad bosses, bad companies, and bad people.
So what. find your bootstraps and pick yourself up by em’ (credit Noelle Mullin) I’m hitting my breaking point for bad news, and I want to talk about it. Truthfully, it’s not that bad. You have your health, you have your friends, you have your family. Start from there, and start to give thanks. It’s easy to complain, and whine and moan. It’s difficult to look on the bright side. It’s terrifying to be the most excited guy in the room. It’s horrible to storm out of the room charging and realize that nobodies behind you. So what. You can do it, you have the ability the talent and the support. Life isn’t about the house you live in. You’re not your car. You’re not your clothes. Be great to people. Love them. Unconditionally. Give thanks – daily. I promise you it will get better.
Once again I need to thank Gary Vaynerchuk for the inspiration here. This guy is a tornado of positivity. I’m SURE he’s feeling the economic downturn with his business. I’m SURE he’s tired from all of the travelling he does. I’m SURE he COULD complain – but he doesn’t. It’s counter productive. Be positive – you have a lot to be grateful for. Sit and think about it. You’re breathing right? AWESOME! You’re reading this aren’t you? AWESOME!
Life is FANTASTIC!!!
Just reading my new Wired Magazine, and came across a pretty cool App that combines GPS technology with a practical need for the weary commuter like myself. iNap, is a travel alarm that keeps you from sleeping through your stop. As long as your iphone can get a GPS signal, the program will track your location and alert you when your stop is on the way. Cool. Very Cool.
Nap away commuters!
Recently I saw an interview with Rush Limbaugh. I know, I know but hear me out. Throughout the course of the interview Rush was his normal cuddly, narrow minded fool blabbering on about some gibberish that I was just about to turn off when he made a statement that got me. He said (now I’m paraphrasing here)_….”I know there’s a recession, I just don’t choose to participate”…..and I have to say that this may be the first time I can ever say - I AGREE WITH OUR BOY RUSH. Amen! Let’s not participate.

I’m sure Rush didn’t mean it the way I’m going to interpret here – but I don’t really care. I choose not to participate in the gloom and doom. I choose to see the silver lining. I choose to be happy. Put that in your pipe and smoke it. I’m grateful for my lovely wife Laura, my perfect baby girl Talia, for my friends, my family and my job. There is a light at the end of the tunnel.
I don’t chose to participate.
You shouldn’t either. Smile, you’ll live longer. I promise.
1. My wife Laura – I paid her $50 if she could last 1/2 hour without talking last night (seriously, she won and I was a happy man to pay up)…but I love that woman. Plus we laugh together….all the time..

2. My daughter Talia
- Feel the touch of a 9 month olds open hand on your cheek and feel the hand of God.

3. My home – I worked my buns off to provide a home for my family, and although it’s no palace, it’s a great place, and I feel like I enter the “no stress zone” every time I come home at night.
4. My family – I actually CHOSE to live in the same town as my brother. Crazy right? Wrong. He and his gorgeous family rule. We all dig spending our Sundays together, and we even invite my PARENTS! For my Mother’s 60th Birthday we’re sending my parents to Sciacca, Sicily – the town of origin for my Mother’s family. Family is EVERYTHING. We surprised her. Priceless..

5. My job – I work with some of the smartest people in the online world, and they’re nice to me. Not sure what I did to deserve that?
Life is good people. take a minute to list your top 5…I promise, you’ll feel great afteward!
This afternoon I had a great lunch meeting with my good friend and former colleague Alex Baydin. Al’s the CEO of Performline. He and his team are having a great start to their year, and we had a great “catch up” lunch. I was in the best mood after I left our meeting. It always gets me fired up to see good people doing big things- kudos to the Performline team.
On my way back downtown to the office, I was feeling energized. I called my wife and then hopped onto the 1 train back down to Houston Street from 23rd. When I sat down I saw an older, somewhat downtrodden black gentleman sitting directly across from me. He had slumped shoulders and was looking down at the ground. I had a smile on my face, and when he picked up his head and made eye contact with me – of course I offered this gentlemen a smile. He immediately sat up straight, smiled back and pulled out a pad and pencil – and began to sketch me.
A few people sitting around us realized what was happening and started to smile. I looked at them and said “I guess I should keep smiling”…they laughed and the gentleman continued to sketch. We stopped at 18th, then 14th, – the person who had been sitting next to me got off and smiled at us both. A new person got on at 14th and sat next to me – when she realized what was happening she smiled and we both chuckled a bit. When we got to Christopher street you could see his
drawing come together – I was getting off at the next stop so I stood up next to the gentleman and placed my hand on his shoulder . I held my hand on him, leaned down and said “that looks great”…a woman next to me prepared to get off at the same stop said “is that supposed to be you”? I said ” I believe so” and with that the man signed the sketch, ripped it off his clipboard and handed it to me over his shoulder with a smile. I took it, said thank you smiled back – and got off the train.
Behold the power of a Smile. You gotta love New York City – and you gotta love life.
Check it out:
Today I stumbled up a cool little gadget that I’ve seen before, but never really gave much thought about – the Flip MinoHD. The first time I saw one in action was on New Years Eve at my cousin Stephanie’s wedding. A close friend of her husband was walking around with (what looked to me) like his cell phone. As I held onto my trusty Camcorder, I snickered – “what kind of quality can he possibly get out of that video”….I love when I’m proved wrong. Flip Video MinoHD Camcorder, 60 Minutes (Black) is one of the coolest new products I’ve seen on the market – and I just begged my wife to buy it for me for my birthday. Considering we have a 9
month old – the options are endless. I hope this baby will live up to the claims regarding quality. If the images are good, I can see myself ditching my trusty camcorder and making a full migration to the Flip Video MinoHD Camcorder, 60 Minutes (Black) It can hold up to 60 minutes of video (just like my camcorder), and it’s a fraction of the size. Great for a new dad that’s loaded down with diaper bags and the like.
If anyone has one, I’d love to learn more about he quality of the images you’ve shot? Thanks!
Help.
I need an assistant.
Prerequisites for the position:
1. Remembering - Must be able to keep all of my passwords, names of former colleagues for Linkedin.com, former high school classmates for facebook.com, and anyone I’ve met at a Web2.0 conference for Twitter.com
2. Pretending – to Be nice to my friends when they send me a message on Facebook – Actually, my assistant needs to pretend to like me, because I’m the one hitting up all of my old high school friends – what can I say I’m addicted…
3. Tracking - Keep an eye out for me on Twitter to see if anyone I’m following is actually saying anything worth reading, or GASP re-tweeting
4. Writing. You must enjoy doing lots of it. Which means you must be witty and a good speler (get it)… – ie, facebook updates can’t be mundane -
Chris Dessi is: on my way home from work = BAD
Chris Dessi is: enjoying speaking about himself in the third person=BETTER
You get the idea…
5. Gushing – Must be able to ramble on and on about how wonderful my daughter is. This is my most predominant running theme in all of my online social endeavors, and I just can’t keep up. Take pic, upload pic, tag friends in pics….repeat.
I need a nap.

Today CNN’s Simon Hooper discussed Facebook’s 5th birthday. Facebook has become such a part of our every day vernacular sometimes it’s difficult to imagine what we did without it (sort of like cell phones). I’d argue that Mr. Hooper’s article is missing something. The main point of discussion is if Facebook can survive. I say yes. He covers numerous points that are worth discussing when it comes to a juggernaut like Facebook for sure. But debating whether or not Facebook can generate the ad revenue that MySpace.com is generating I think may be irrelevant.
Let me explain why Facebook will survive and why non of the points Mr. Hopper touched on are the reasons why: 
I challenge Hooper to take a closer look at the bigger picture. Guys like Zuckerberg, while a celebrity in his own right and of course an excessively successful person is changing the internet for the better. Places like Facebook and Craigslist aren’t allowing Madison Avenue to dictate the content, or development of their sites. They’re churning out great content – or in this case great tools so that a user can have the best experience when connecting with former classmates, friends etc.
“The culture of the Internet has also changed pretty dramatically over the past five years. Before, most people wouldn’t consider sharing their real identities online,” Zuckerberg said. “But Facebook has offered a safe and trusted environment for people to interact online, which has made millions of people comfortable expressing more about themselves.”
What I find most fascinating about Facebook isn’t the money making potential – although I’ll admit, I wouldn’t turn down a job with Mr. Zuckerberg. What fascinates me is the way we (as a society) are using this tool to communicate.
It’s the first time the internet is delivering on its promise of “bringing us together”.
My experience with Facebook has been nothing short of a perfect Brand Experience rivaled only by Google. Every time I log into my account I come across a new friend or colleague I’ve lost touch with. I love reading my friends statuses. I love learning about my friends in even greater detail than I had previously known, and I love that I can share with them the joy of being a new father without being obtrusive. We live in a world that moves at the speed of light, and Facebook is my only outlet to stoke the formerly dwindling embers of friendships that I’ve valued for years. I thank Facebook for living up to its potential. I praise them for not becoming the sexually charged bombast of Myspace.com. I admire them for asking my opinion when they serve an (albeit relatively unobtrusive ad).
Facebook is 5, will it survive?….yep.
If you didn’t think the folks over at Google were geniuses before, think again. I just came across an article on Reuters indicating that Google is offering a Gmail feature called “Mail Goggles”
“Mail Goggles” helps users avoid sending regrettable email or Gchat messages, an instant messaging system, by making them pass a simple math test before sending.
A MATH TEST!!!
Genius…pure, simple genius. Great ideas are the ones that seem so obvious that you slap your forehead when someone else releases them. I’m sure this has been thought of before (I remember sitting around in college dreaming about phones with breathalyzer tests after having made one too many drunken calls to an ex).
I’m sure this handy little application will save a few jobs (breathe and try to solve a math problem before you rip off that ticked off email to your boss, or high maintenance client). I’m also certain it’ll save more than a few relationships (hasty break up messages, or even inappropriate notes to exes will be hindered). Alcoholics of the world rejoice…
Google – not being evil, and helping you keep your reputation intact.
Outstanding.
Since I started here at Miva Direct, we’ve been pushing our team internally to execute in the most expeditious manner possible. All hands on deck brainstorming sessions, long hours and full commitment from everyone involved. The results have been better than anyone could have expected with this down economy. Here’s why;
Quick Wins
The executive team spend a full day at an offsite meeting outlining the quickest way to generate our desired results (revenue) in the most efficient manner using all resources we have at our fingertips (ie, no new hires). It worked well, and we’re reaping the rewards as we approach mid-Q1
Here’s how we did it
1. Made people believers not bystanders – we engaged the help of everyone from Account Managers to Directors and VP’s. Everyone has had a hand in this success, and taken ownership.
2. Understood uncertainty – Moving forward in this manner, we didn’t sugar coat things with the team. They understand the implications of this economy and understand they can have a hand in their own destiny.
3. Show humility – The executive team has had to ask for help. Ideas that may not have been touched on during the meeting were add
4. Learn about your team – We’ve had to ask people to take on roles and responsibilities that may not have been in their job description and this has been a huge success. Our team is so talented. I’m surprised and impressed by them daily. We’ve given them the opportunity to shine.
What we didn’t do – that could have destroyed our efforts: 
1. Focus too heavily on details – we used the theory of Occam’s razor – or the Law of Economy.
2. Reacting negatively to criticism – We understood that we needed to improve. We put our heads down and did.
3. Intimidating others – We didn’t used idle threats to motivate. We enlisted the help of our teammates, and empowered them to move.
4. Jumping to conclusions – We stayed open to suggestions and guidance from the team, and didn’t assume anything.
5. Micromanaging – We trusted our people to execute.
Go get some quick wins!
We did..
As our economy worsens and belts continue to tighten online advertisers are even better off. The reason? ROI – Return on Investment. There is no other medium where the advertiser knows exactly where ads will run, and can track performance. There is certainly value in brand advertising, but in order to fully see the power of online advertising, one must only offer a CPA, or CPC and watch the magic happen. Certainly there are risks involved as there are regarding any advertising. You’ll be well suited to investigate the pitfalls – ie, chargebacks or deductions, click fraud but rest assured if you need to advertise -and you DO, then make it performance based.
The worst feeling in the world is spending dollars and you cannot quantify where there went, or the purpose regarding your spend. When you have a paying customer that just paid you $30, and you paid an affiliate $15 to generate that sale, I can guarantee you’ll migrate your spend to performance driven.
This evening while listening to a TED Talks Podcast from Elizabeth Gilbert – the author of Eat, Pray, Love: One Woman’s Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia I was inspired. During her talk, Elizabeth spans hundreds of years speaking about the idea that ancient man didn’t necessarily credit himself for the creative work he would do. Gilbert goes on to even side with this idea – citing that Socrates famously claimed to have a “damon” or spirit that was with him at all times. This magical devine entity would be with him and assist in his creative endeavors. The Romans called this spirit genius.
Elizabeth supports that we as a modern society should shift to thinking this way (perhaps not in a wholly literal sense), but rather in the sense that we should at least acknowledge that this creative force, this light, creativity inside us isn’t wholly of us.
She speaks of the ancient Moors who while dancing would recognize when one of them would dance so elegantly, so perfectly, and with such ease and grace that the would recognize it in the tribe by chanting Allah, Allah, Allah (God, God, God).
When the Moors later invaded southern Spain you can hear their influence when the Spanish see something done well and chant Oley Oley Oley – a Glimpse of God.
Today – be creative – look for God in yourself. Love yourself enough to keep showing up and see that glimpse of what the Romans called Genius. See the Genius in yourself.
FTC in the News:
Federal Trade Commission staff today issued a report describing its ongoing examination of online behavioral advertising and setting forth revisions to proposed principles to govern self-regulatory efforts in this area. The key issue concerns how online advertisers can best protect consumers’ privacy while collecting information about their online activities.
The FTC is on the hunt again. This time it’s behavioral targeting. I’m sure heads will roll and companies will be put out of business, but really for what? Consider when a user is targeted properly by an advertiser the ad that they see is based upon their past interests, and surfing
history. This should be a good thing, right? I delight when I see a well place ad from ESPN, because their ad agency has done some research and understood how to best communicate with me. I understand there needs to be regulation, and I support the FTC’s efforts regarding most endeavors, but are they upholding their tag line of “Protecting Americas Consumers” on this one?
What do you think?
A few weeks ago when Sully landed in the Hudson river we all had our moment to “go there”. We imagined what we would do, how we would react. My wife Laura and I cringed at the thought of having to deal with a situation like that with our 10 month old along with us. We watched in relieve as each passenger was pulled from the plane safely. 60 Minutes did a phenomenal follow up story that I watched earlier this week. During the show we met a passenger who had lost a brother in the 9/11 attacks. He said that as the plane was decending to crash land in the Hudson he thought that his family couldn’t handle the loss. He tearfully thanked Captain Sully. It was chilling, and moving. Today that scenario has horribly come true in the loss of Beverly Eckert. Ekhert lost her husband in the Attacks on the World Trade Center and was among those who perished Thursday. I pray for her family. MSNBC Reports the following:
A widow of a victim of the Sept. 11, 2001, attacks on the World Trade Center was among those killed in a plane crash near Buffalo, N.Y., late Thursday, her sister told a local newspaper.
Eckert’s husband, Sean Rooney, was a native of Buffalo, th
e newspaper said. Eckert was flying to Buffalo for celebrations with relatives marking the 58th birthday of her late husband, the paper said.
“We know she was on that plane and now she’s with him,” Beverly Eckert’s sister Sue Borque told The Buffalo News.
Beverly Eckert, left, shown here with fellow 9/11 widow Mary Fetchet outside the U.S. Congress in 2004, was among those killed in the crash of Flight 3407, her sister said.
I was 5 when I first met her, 29 when I first kissed her and 30 when she accepted my proposal to be my wife. At 33 she gave me a perfect baby girl. I’m blessed. I have the love of an amazing woman.
I thought I knew about life, Laura taught me how to live. I thought I knew how to treat people, she shows me daily how to give more.
Laura Jean Guiglotto, or LJ as we used to call her when she was a little girl is the love of my life. I’d just returned from living in London for a year when we went on our first real date. I told her I’d marry her two weeks into our new relationship. I’d never been so sure of anything before in my life.
I always knew she’d be a great mother; I get choked up when I see her holding our daughter Talia. She makes me laugh, and we laugh together. We play together. We learn together. We experience life together.
When I first started dating her I felt I was well rounded. I had done some traveling and I thought I could show her the world. Instead she opened my eyes to a new world of beauty and understanding that I didn’t think existed.
When we went to Europe together I could actually see her thirst for knowledge about every place we visited. She approaches new things with child like wonder.
She teaches me how to trust. She shows me how to give love unconditionally. Did I mention she makes me laugh? I mean REALLY laugh that laugh that makes you lose your breath. That’s pure. That’s love. Oh yeah, plus she bakes too. Her brownies will make your toes curl in ecstasy. She’s my friend. She’s got my back. She laughs at my bad jokes. She tells me how smart she thinks I am, and then makes fun of me and tells me I’m too cocky. She’s perfect, for me.
I love to surprise her because she never expects anything from me. I love to make a fuss over her because nobody every did. I love to rub her feet for her (seriously, I’m not sure why but I actually enjoy rubbing her feet….odd, I know).
She treats her family like gold. She honors her Grandfather with respect that I admire. She thinks of everyone before she thinks of herself, and I love that we have a child together.
I love that Talia has her gentle big brown eyes. I love that my baby girl has Laura as her role model. I love that my wife has a masters degree. I love that she cries every year on the last day of school (she’s a school teacher). I love how much she cares about her students. I love that she decorates the house in accordance to any appropriate holiday she can think of, and that she has place mats to match (actually I don’t love that, I just think it’s funny). Finally, she’s an amazing kisser and she looks phenomenal in a bikini.

Happy Valentines Day!
Yesterday was my 34th birthday, and I have to say it was one of my best. More on that later. Sunday night I was laying in bed thinking about how lucky I am to have such a great family when I started to think about past great birthdays. So here’s a fun recap of some of my best, and why:
10 - While it may not seem obvious why becoming 10 is the coolest thing ever – let me share why I was so pumped. Two words – Double Digits. Plus I received the best gift – a boom box from my parents. I went nuts when I opened the gift, believe it or not I still have it (well my Dad does), he keeps it in his garage. It was the beginning of my love affair with music – first tape?
Huey Lewis and the News. Not the best way to start, but c’mon – I was 10. Good times – Back to the double digits… I remember bounding down the hallway whooping and hollering DOUBLE DIGITS!! I’m not sure I’m really proud of that, nor am I really sure why I was so excited (maybe it’s because Alyssa Milano was 10 and I now felt comfortable enough as a sage young man of 10 to write to her fan club and let her know once and for all “who’s the boss”..) but I digress.
13 - At 13 I was the same height I am now (which isn’t really saying much) but I was a full head taller than everyone. I’m convinced it’s where I get my confidence. For some reason when you’re bigger than everyone there’s an odd unspoken reverence for said large person. I never grew another inch, but that one year – I was a God (at least I thought I was). I was captain of my wrestling team, I shaved for the first time, and my parents threw me a surprise party at my house. It was the coolest. We had a lip sync contest and the grand finale was a full party rendition of Paradise City by GNR. There were girls at the party too and that played well into the serge of hormones coursing through my lanky 5 foot 9 inch body. That ruled. On a less exciting note – I spent 3 months of that year grounded whilst dealing with said serge of hormones…..once again….I digress…
21 - I’d already been drinking legally for a few months because I was living in Leuven Belgium for a year long study abroad program. For those of you that aren’t familiar with Leuven, it’s in the Guinness Book of World Records for most pubs per square meter – a great place to study. 30,000 students from all over the world and lots of Belgian Beer. That weekend I knew my Mother, brother Mark and cousin Trish were coming to visit. What I didn’t know was that my Father was joining them. I remember waiting at the airport for them to land (they were delayed due to a huge snow storm back home in New York). I was lying down on a row of chairs when I said to my good friend
Steve Rossi “I wonder when they’ll get in”. My Dad answered the question as he stood over me. I was bewildered, and thrilled at the same time. Everyone arrived safely and the “kids” decided to hit the bars that first night in Belgium. I’d been bragging to my brother and cousin that I had a great tolerance for Beer now because I’d been drinking legally and that there was no way I’d get sick. Big mistake. I remember running to the bathroom after a round of shots. I calmed myself and felt the urge to throw up pass. That’s when Paulo Antonio Ribeiro Montero walked in (I swear that’s the kids name, odd that I remember, but really, could you ever forget a name like that?). When he came into the bathroom he had a pint glass of soda. I asked him for a sip because I was on the verge of projectile vomiting and I needed to settle my stomach. He happily obliged me. I chugged, chugged….then spit out the straight Jack Daniels. Bummer. Commence Vomiting. I ran home screaming “I’m 21″ at the top of my lungs. Not sure I’ll ever brag to my cousin and brother again about much anything let alone being able to drink them under the table. But man, it was fun.
30 – This was the biggest mind blower of all time. While at the mall with my wife Laura one evening, we were set to leave and invite my brother and his wife out for dinner with us. When we called my brother was stand-off ish, and not interested in leaving the house. I tried to persuade him to no avail. I hung up and told my wife Laura (then my girlfriend) that they were in for the night and not interested. We started to drive a bit when Laura suggested we call him and tell him we’ll visit them and bring over some pizza. I called back and my brother hesitated a bit, but then said fine, just get some pizza and come over. When we walked into the house it was packed with friends and family. I was seriously so confused when I walked in. I thought I’d invited myself over, not the other way around. I was played, and had the best surprise ever. This was one of the many “she’s a keeper” events that Laura pulled off over the years.
34 Sunday the whole family came over to celebrate, and it was a fantastic time. My cousins Trish and MK joined in the fun, and the my nieces and daughter made it a total blast. Thanks guys!
NEW YORK – February 19, 2009. MIVA Direct, Inc., the toolbar, homepage and content division of digital media and advertising company, MIVA, Inc. (NASDAQ:MIVA), today announced the roll out of live community features across its ALOT Toolbar and Homepage products following the signing of a new agreement with Meebo, one of the Web’s fastest growing social media companies.
Under the terms of the agreement, MIVA Direct is using Meebo’s technology to facilitate real-time social interactions between users via chat rooms that are promoted across ALOT Toolbar and ALOT Home. Meebo is serving social ads into the technology and MIVA Direct will earn a share of the revenue generated from these ad units.
In addition to the expected revenue it will generate, the functionality is also designed to extend ALOT’s mission of ‘Making the Internet Easy’ by delivering further value to the brand’s existing vertical audiences. Chris Dessi, MIVA Direct’s VP of Sales and Business Development, explains:
“Since launching ALOT we’ve been building up users across a broad range of different verticals – our ALOT Toolbar for Recipes, for example, currently has over 335,000 live users[1]. We believe there are significant potential benefits in offering vertically focused chat rooms that enable these like-minded users to communicate directly with each other, and believe that Meebo is a great application to help us kick-start this process.”
Added Stephanie Quay, Meebo’s Director of Business Development: “The scale and vertical focus of ALOT’s customer base makes them a great fit for Meebo. We look forward to working with them to roll out and monetize our solution.”
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About MIVA®, Inc.
MIVA, Inc. (NASDAQ:MIVA) is a global digital media company with a mission to deliver valuable digital audiences to advertisers. MIVA has two focuses to its business: owning and operating toolbar, homepage and desktop products, through its MIVA Direct division; and running a third-party contextual Pay-Per-Click ad network through its MIVA Media division. MIVA, Inc. operates across North America and Europe.
About Meebo, Inc.
With over 40 million people sharing over 5 billion messages and 75 million links every month, Meebo is one of the Web’s fastest growing social media companies. Founded in September 2005, Meebo enables real-time social interactions with instant messaging and group chat at meebo.com and on partner sites across the Web. Meebo is headquartered in Mountain View, CA. Visit meebo.com to connect with friends live on the Web.
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This morning while reading the Journal there was a huge story covering Skittles. Apparently they have some super savvy people working over there at Mars Snackfood because the team has leveraged the heck out of social media, and they’re reaping the rewards – Skittle style. When asked for a quote regarding the brand, their Agency Strategist offered one of the most delightful fun descriptions of a brand I’ve ever heard:
Ben Weisman, a strategist at Iris-New York, said the move paints Skittles as a “daring, out-of-the-box, unicorn-riding, candy-loving, fantasy-meets-reality, rainbow-tasting” brand.
I wish the world had more brands with “Unicorn-riding” in the description.
Mission accomplished Iris.
This morning something fascinating happened.
During my commute in on the train I read an article so timely and so appropriate in the Wall Street Journal: that I made copies and passed it out to our team. I was feeling so positive today, so convinced that our team was pulling itself out of the muck and mire of complaining and feeling the negative effects of the recession etc, and turning a corner to producing. I shared it to be a point of positivity, to spread a feeling of good will and general warm feeling about what we’ve been through and are accomplishing. I felt they would appreciate the timeliness of the note, smile and file it away under “nice article”…
Most did.
An anonymous someone apparently did not, and left the article crumpled in a ball outside my office door.
Fascinating.
The article’s title is “From Attitude to Gratitude: This is No Time for Complaints” by Jeffrey Zaslow. What could have been so offensive to warrant a response of that nature?
Well, the general”zeitgeist” of the article is that when recession hits people tend to complainn less, and realize just how lucky they are to be gainfully employed etc. Zaslow cites that
“Job satisfaction is actually up according to a December 2008 survey by Yahoo! HotJobs.” People are more grateful for what they have an hesitant to wine and complain.
Jeffrey goes on to quote Dr. McHenry
“A lot of young people grumble due to entitlement” Dr. McHenry encourages us to write down three things we’re grateful for every day – no matter how simple they might seem. “Some days, ” she says, “the list might be as basic as oxygen, food and shelter”
This final quote inspired me to even add this as my status on facebook this morning:
Chris is wondering what are 3 things that you’re grateful for today? – 1.My Family 2.My Job 3. The recent development of a sports page in the WSJ are mine
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So what could have triggered this person to crumple up the article and leave it outside my office? I guess I’ll never know. Perhaps as my mother says “A guilty conscience needs no accuser”
But I’ll tell you one thing – I’m certainly not going to complain about it
I just returned from a head clearing heart pounding 6mile run. It’s amazing how much clearer your thinking becomes when you’re challenging your body. I’m in the middle of day 4 after losing my job, and I’m already making some big moves. It’s fascinating to step back and be witness to the emotional rollercoaster of job loss. That coupled with our lovely little recession we’re experiencing hasn’t exactly helped my spirits, but it hasn’t gotten me so down either.

I’ve been really down before. I’ve faced some minimal adversity in my life, and I’m thankful every day for that. I know in my heart that I wouldn’t appreciate the good things in my life if I were never faced with the “percieved bad”. I say “perceived bad” because I mean really, how bad is it? Nobody is dying here. :-)
Take inventory today. I’m mean really, seriously take inventory. While I was running I thought of the many things I can be thankful for:
1. I’m able to run 6miles!
2. The seasons are changing and you can almost smell the baseball in the air – GO YANKS!
3. My daughter’s birthday is on April 14th!
If a guy on day 4 of joblessness in the midst of a sh*tty recession can be grateful, than you really have no excuse to complain today!
Thursday Miva was acquired by AdKnowledge, Inc. This is phenomenal news for the talented folks running Miva Direct. Robert Roe and Mark Ribaudo have a vision for the Miva Direct team that I’m excited to see come to fruition in the coming weeks. I won’t be a part of that vision because this Monday I was let go. This is the best thing to happen for me. This is an opportunity for growth, learning and expansion. I worked very hard in the months that I spent at Miva Direct and I hope that the team experiences nothing but success. They all deserve the best. Now, I must start the journey to look for my next challenge.
Today, I’m bursting with ideas, happiness, and a feeling that everything happens for a reason. I’ve decided that I will take some time to be with my family and decide the best opportunity for us. A hasty decision is dangerous, and I want to ensure that I make a decision to move from a pure place, and not a place that is based in financial concern.
There is so much opportunity in front of me, and I’m excited that this is an opportunity for me to “practice what I preach”. I have posted on here before regarding the recession, and our perception of the world around us when we’re in the midst of a recession. Some responded saying that my outlook was unreasonable and much too positive. I disagree. Life is not an enemy. I don’t want war. I want peace, love and a non hostile environment. My relationship with the present moment is not a means to an end. I see my present moment as the only thing that I have. Life is inseparable from the now. Now, life is abundant.

How lucky am I?
I see the disfunction in grasping for the future, of reacting to the panick of unemployment. This will not support a smooth transition into a new role. This will only support decision making that is fear based. This won’t help me find a role that is a fulfilling career move. I may find a “job”, but not an environment where I can be surrounded by like minded positive people. Life’s much too short for me to seek only financial success. I’ve seen the danger of this mentality. My actions today are empowered by my intention to do good, act for the good of the people I encounter in my life, and the refusal to feel bitter, rejected, or down. Too many of us are unaware that we have an inner wisdom of intuition that guides us. Today is a day I’ve never lived before, and I’m glad to be alive today. I give to life what I expect life to give to me. I love life.
Out of this situation, only good will come.
There a few ways you can react to getting let go:
You can:
1. Wallow in self pity
2. Drink yourself into oblivion
3. Wallow while drinking
4. Say f- it and head to Figi for a month, and then wallow and drink.
5. Pick yourself up by your bootstraps and get to work…then maybe have a nice glass of Gary Vaynerchuk recommended vino.
At this point in my life and since I have the responsibilities of a perfect little girl and a mortgage to pay – I really can only pick option – #5.
That said this week has been a whirlwind of meetings, phone calls and ideas. Ideas that I’ve been thinking about for months but never really had the time to see to fruition. I’m saying screw getting down – screw wallowing in self pity. This is opportunity time. I’m so energized and pumped for these ideas!!
So here they are in no particular order:
I’ve registered two company LLC’s
1. LookUpInteractive LLC - An idea that I had about two years ago to start my own consulting business. I just launched the site – and while still VERY bare bones – I’m pumped. Check it out:
www.lookupinteractive.com
2. Dadzilla LLC - I purchased the url www.dadzillatv.com – and I’ve hired a great team of freelancer to help me build the site on evenings and on weekends. It’s not ready to launch but I think it will hit a demo that gets neglected – DADS – I see tons and TONS of parenting advice and there’s really nothing for Dads. My idea is to host a weekly show that will interview people that can offer advice for Dads – everything from the type of mortgage you should look for to the type of crib you should be getting for the new little addition. I’ve been blessed to have a phenomenal family that loves and supports me, and I realize that not everyone has that type of support system. So we need to educate the new Dads out there. They need to keep their new little ones safe and secure. They also need to know what stuff is a rip off and what stuff they really need – ie, ditch the frills and invest in a gate so your baby doesn’t take a spill down the steps! 
There are a lot more where these came from – so let me hear your feedback? Kill me with constructive feedback guys I want these ideas to take off and I need your help – what do you think?
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Last Monday I was let go from my position as Vice President of Sales and Business Development at a publicly traded company. Tuesday I woke up and decided that I would put the wheels into motion to follow my heart instead of my wallet while looking for my next position.
I wanted to be a part of the web 2.0 social marketing community and began to seek sales roles at companies that fit the description. Where better to start my journey than the kings of social - Facebook.com? I love Facebook and saw that they were hiring. I applied for a Sales Director role.
Enthralled by Social Marketing I began to test my knowledge and see if I could leverage the medium to help my search. I dove headfirst into Twitter and began scanning for like minded individuals. I quickly discoverd @jamievaron and her site www.twittershouldhireme.com.
I was amazed by her ingenuity. I immediately decided that I would start a “copy cat” site called www.facebookshouldhireme.com. I purchased the URL and implemented via Godaddy.com. I was thrilled. I shared the link with my friends and family via Facebook.com (where else).
A day later Facebook.com respectfully declined my application.
Ouch.
Well, not so fast. Personally, I think the whole experience was phenomenal, I also think Jamie is fantastic. That’s mainly why I’m writing this post = I’m a bit disheartened to have read the following article today titled:
Why TwitterShouldHireMe.com is a bad idea
By Heather Huhman
The author notes 6 reasons why. I’d like to defend my position as well as Jamie’s and respond to each point.
1. She’s pigeonholded herself.
Regarding @jamievaron I disagree. The only companies she may have alienated are most likely companies that she wouldn’t like to work for. I’m sure the guys at Digg think she’s creative and interesting.
Regarding@cdessi I really disagree. I have a masters degree in Marketing, and I’ve been in online sales for 11 years. I’m not supposed to be able to produce a site like www.facebookshouldhireme.com. As I attempt to make the jump into the social marketing space this can only help.
2. She’s coming off desperate.
@jameivaron – I think she comes off as articulate, creative and passionate. She’s asking for the job of her dreams. I don’t think that’s desperate at all. I admire her for it. She’s young. It takes some people a lifetime to articulate what it is that they’d love to do.
@cdessi I was
(sort of) The economy is horrible, and I need a J O B. Why not work someplace I love and get there in a creative way? After 7 days being unemployed, luckily I’ve already been given an offer. I’ve been boring my entire career – what the heck. I have a home, a wife, and a baby girl to provide for, I’m sure nobody will fault me for trying. My personal brand has already been damaged by two lay-offs due to economic conditions in one year. I have nothing to lose and everything to gain by the exposure.
3. She’s stereotypical Generation Y
@jamievaron - No way. No way at all. The stereotype does exist, and I’ve experienced in some of the team members I’ve managed. This young lady has initiative, creativity and a passion. The stereotype smacks of entitlement. An entitled stereotypical Generation Y would have been offered a job at Twitter and then would complain to anyone that would listen when Twitter announces they can no longer offer free breakfast because of the economy. Her site is an omage to Twitter. Not to her. She’s pledging her undying love and affection for a company that has become a part of her life. I’d hire a young woman like her in a second.
@cdessi – Hmmm..I’m generation X – I wonder what this says about me? Maybe that the game has changed, and the normal procedure doesn’t apply?
4. She’s unprofessional -
@jamievaron - I’m 34 and I’ve reported to 28 year old millionaires that show up at work in jeans and an Ed Hardy T-shirt. They negotiate million dollar deals via IM. Professional has been redefined in the Web2.0 world. If she walked in with a suit on and a brief case she wouldn’t fit into the culture at Twitter. The site is designed for Micro Bloggin. It isn’t GE. She’s being appropriately and refreshingly herself.
@cdessi - see above.
5. She’s controversial, and therefore a risk.
@jamevaron She’s part of a generation that has been posting personal photos of themselves on Myspace, facebook, friendster and the like since they were in their teens. Their whole lives have unfolded online and shared with their entire world. Considering the people she’s appealing to are her contemporaries I hardly think they’ll find this site controversial.
@cdessi - For me – a 34 year – perhaps this could be a dangerous move. Again I’ll reference my two lay-offs in less than a year as a liability as well, but sometimes the contrarian is the guy that’s most innovative in the board room. I’ll take that risk.
6. It’s been done.
@jamievaron – This is way off. Facebook wasn’t the first social site. Twitter may be the first micro blogging site, but I’m certain it’s not the last. To say that @jamievaron’s “angle” is never going to be reproduced is silly. I’m sure you’ll see even better iterations on her idea. Done with more flare, perhaps to an even more controversial effect.
@cdessi - I’m sure this idea will be replicated (hopefully with better results than mine)
I’ve seen stories on executives standing on street scorners. This will be replicated and built upon as the economy continues to worsen and people need to find more creative ways to distinguish themselves.
I attended a great session hosted by Sarah Milstein this morning at the Web 2.0 conference in San Fran regarding how businesses can utilize Twitter as a powerful tool to communicate online. Milstein is a Web 2.0 strategist and co-founder of 20slides.com, a site for lively, work-related workshops. During her presentation she also announced that she has co-authored a book with Tim O’Reilly called The Twitter Book (reserve a copy here)
This session had so much great/relevant content. Here are some highlights:
SOME BASICS:
When you want to categorize messages on Twitter use the # Hash tag – so for example, if I tweet about the Web 2.0 Conference I can say: “having a great time in San Fran” and than put #w2e at the end of the message that’s relevant to the expo.
When speaking to someone start with the “@” symbol – so a message to me on Twitter would start @cdessi “#####”
TWITTER STRATEGY
Interact with your community and show the human side of your company. The Chicago Bulls were cited as a great example following the game as their followers do- communicating similar interests and passion for the Bulls. Allowing your Twitter followers to connect with the people in the company was a driving theme. Don’t push out to the users, engage them and share. Someone posted a question to Jetblue regarding places to visit in DC. Jetblue ReTweeted to the community and they helped the person.
LISTENING TOOLS AND TECHNIQUES
Leverage the tools to find out who’s talking about your company, or who has similar interests and may be a new customer. Most interesting tools cited:
Advanced Search on search.twitter.com for Words, People, Places, Dates, Attitudes, and other to search to see if there are people that are happy, unhappy or sharing links. Recommended to grab the RSS feed of yous saved search, or get the results emailed to you via Tweetbeep.com. Sarah shared a story in which the Crowdvine CEO did a search and found a user that wasn’t happy with the product. It turned out to be a bug that was resolved. A CEO of a competitor had reached out to the same person – lesson? You HAVE to engage the user on Twitter or your competition will.
Some additional resources:
FINDING FOLLOWERS
The first point that Sarah made is that you don’t need a million followers. What you need are a small number of passionate engaged followers. She offered some tips:
1. Start with content.
2. Post great stuff and people will listen.
3. Make them want to follow you.
4. Start a conversation by using @ replies.
Some tools:
SMART INTEGRATION
Allowing the user to integrate the Twitter account into the service you offer. Example: Wesabe – users can direct message their expenses to them. Salesforce.com has recently integrated Twitter which will launch this Summer. You can respond to your users leveraging Salesforce.com tools. She feels that this really adds legitimacy for Twitter. Companies are finding that people complain on Twitter before they call customer service. So they can predict issues by being engaged in this community.
Quote of the session from this dynamic young woman Twitter is the “Canary in the Coal Mine” for brands.
A question from the audience and answer from Sarah during the session:
Veronica Belmont and Patrick Norton treated the crowd at the Web 2.0 conference to a live taping of the super popular Tekzilla show. Before the taping the two offered some interesting behind the scene tidbits regarding TV (apparently clapping fast and higher up on your body than normal sound better on TV), who knew?
Evan Williams founder of Twitter dropped by, and offered two memorable gems. when Veronica inquired “What advice do you have
for startups” Evan with tongue firmly inserted in his cheek offered the sage advice “Do something awesome.” The answer, however dry recieved a nice chuckle from the audience.
Throughout the show, and while reviewing different product (photo printers etc), the hosts took video questions sent in by viewers and kept track of a lucky attendee’s site redesign in real time by web designers headquartered in New York. This aspect of the show was a bit of a dud considering by shows end the site was really not very impressive and received the appropriate reaction from the live audience.
All in all it was a great experience, and fun to watch the “behind the scenes” action for the taping. It was impressive to see just how knowledgeable they both are. They’ve certainly done their homework for each product they review, and you can feel that passion in Patrick’s answers. This guys loves what he does, and that’s contagious.
This past week Jamie Varon of “Twittershouldhireme.com” fame was featured in Fortune Magazine. While Jamie and I have spoken before (considering I’ve shamelessly copied her wonderful idea to appeal to Twitter directly for employment), I only learned of the news from one of her ecstatic “tweets” regarding the coverage. I was obviously super excited to see that my copy cat site “Facebookshoulhireme.com” was mentioned in the article as well. Who would have thought that I’d have to be unemployed to get a mention in Fortune. Outstanding! Oh yeah, if you’re reading this – follow me on Twitter! @cdessi
What Varon did next made her feel a little crazy. But then, it’s a crazy time to be looking for a job. She created a website called twittershouldhireme.com, including her resume, recommendations, and a blog tracking her quest. Within 24 hours the company contacted her. She had a lunch meeting set up at Twitter, and in the meantime got two job offers from tech companies that had noticed her site, which has even spawned imitators: googleshouldhireme.com and facebookshouldhireme.com.
Check out the full article HERE - or just click on Jamie’s image: